Relational Psychotherapy is based on the idea that who we are and how we relate to others is formed early on.
When we come to understand what we believe to be true about ourselves, we realise as well, that these beliefs come from the messages/responses others gave us at a very young age. Questioning these beliefs makes changes possible. The process of bridging the old ways with the new. Hence, the emphasis on the word relational.

My name is Benjamin and I have been a practising psychotherapist & counsellor for the past 26 years. I have also written for the Attachment Journal' which is published by Karnac Books.
In this time I have worked with numerous client groups, and conducted training and supervison.
My specialities are working with LGBT issues, immune related conditions & addiction (including porn condition). I also work within the disability field and have experience in depression & eating disorders.
Lastly I work with trauma, anger management, loss and bereavement and relationship issues where I have had many successes in these fields.


1993: Creative Arts Therapy Course, University of Hertfordshire 1994: Intermediate Dance Therapy Course, Laban Centre for Movement and Dance 1995: Introductory Course on Psychodynamic Counselling for Lesbians and Gay Men, Birkbeck College, University of London 1998: Transactional Analysis 101 Instructor Qualification, Institute of Transactional Analysis, London 2003: Attachment-based Psychoanalytic Psychotherapy Course, The Bowlby Centre, London 2005-2017: Registered with the Bowlby Centre and the UKCP as an Attachment-based Psychoanalytical Psychotherapist 2006: Registered member of The Institute of Psychotherapy and Disability 2018: Registered member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy

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Last Updated: 22/05/2018
Age Groups: (0-15) (16-18) (19-25) (25+)
Fees: Yes

I have a sliding scale when it comes to fees: £35-£55, however this is always negotiable.

Types of Support:
Face to face
Self esteem
Comorbidity (eating disorders and other mental health conditions)
Types of Service:
Private Practitioner
Types of Treatment:
Other Psychotherapy
Family Therapy